June 28, 2012

haven swag giveaway!

**this giveaway is closed - congrats debra on winning the swag giveaway!**

i will never again balk at the price of a blogging conference ticket. we were inundated with SO much free stuff and coupon codes and giveaways that i was dizzy with what to do with it all. and trust me, there were people who went home with WAY more than i did. (like the lucky gal who won the $1000 gift basket from annie sloan chalk paint!)

haven swag

a quick summary of what is in here:

a complete car cleaning kit from 3M/bondo, spot remover from oreck, a sample of purebond plywood along with a magnet and pin, a mirrormate coupon, a sample stencil and coupon from royal design studios, a 3M non slip rug mat plus two sets of rug anchors, 3M safety glasses, a home design notebook from HGTV shaw floors, a purdy paint bruch, a minwax stain pen, a sample of annie sloan chalk paint, a feather duster, two rolls of frog tape, cutter bug spray, fish window cleaner, two kreg pocket hole jigs (one of which i won), a spray paint handle (similar), a purebond measuring tape, and three pretty sweet bags to carry it all in.

there is no chance i will ever need or use all of this PLUS you guys are pretty awesome and sweet so i thought why not share some of my goodies with you??

haven swag giveaway

here is what you get:

one roll of frogtape, one set of rug anchors, the home design notebook from HGTV, a sample of annie sloan chalk paint in antibes green, a frogtape coozie, a fish window cleaner yoyo (for the kiddos), a sample stencil from royal design studios, a purebond magnet, a feather duster, a minwax stain pen and keychain, an HGTV coffeemug, a purebond measuring tape all packaged in a really cute and handy HGTV bag!

so who wants some free loot? use the rafflecopter widget below to enter!

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June 27, 2012

defining success: validated

so - as you are most likely aware, i went to a blogging conference, haven home & diy precisely, about a week ago. it was there i discovered possibly the most important step in my journey to success to date.

defining success and living our dreams

what is truly funny is i didn't realize how important this was to me until after i had received it.

unlike the other things i must work toward (like being aware or calculated) or traits i am just born with (like being unapologetic or cheerful), being validated is something that, in some ways, must come from somewhere else.

i can preach to myself all day long that i'm where i am supposed to be. but until i get that feeling from others - that light in someone's eyes when they recognize who i am, or that "oh i love your shop - i will definitely check it all out!" - it is so hard in this hobby (profession, side-show, whatever you call it) to feel validated.

only i can be me. and i don't necessarily need others to tell me that being me is okay. i definitely get that. but to hear that being me is AWESOME and that the me i am being is the path i wanted to be on anyways is even MORE AWESOMER.

is that muddled? let me give you an example...

i've been toying with the idea in my head to offer some virtual assistant services. but i wasn't sure how to go about it. what do i have time to do? who would need my services? what on earth do i charge? i know it is something i will enjoy doing but how do i know if this isn't just something else to distract me from where God wants me? i have a really hard time discerning His will. yeesh.

so anywho - at haven, thursday at lunch i just so happened to sit down with a couple of super sweet girls. we sat and talked for a minute, exchanged names and business cards, and somehow {perhaps by the grace of God?} the topic of virtual assistants came up. so, i guess you could say that i am one now. for one blogger at least. hopefully for more in the future. and possibly one day i'll be able to do it from home full time?

lofty goals, but what is a life without a dream, eh? so - this desire to do something fun and different was validated. it doesn't feel totally off the cuff now. it feels planned, crafted, and intentional. and whoa if that isn't the coolest feeling EVAH.

have you felt entirely validated lately - like the path you are on is exactly where you were supposed to be? i'd love to hear some stories!

June 26, 2012

five things i learned at #haven2012

oh. my. word.

if i could wrap this past few days up into one single word it would have to be

totallyamazeballsawesomenessfantabulous.

clearly, one word does not cut it.

i have so much to process, take in, learn, analyze, and just simply enjoy that writing a recap post right now would never do it justice. so i'm just going to share with you the top five things that took residence in my brain this weekend.

1. people are people.

john and sherry - young house love

there is something so amazing about putting a person with a blog. i see floating heads on blogs all day long but attaching that head to a body and a body to that entire person puts it on a whole. notha. level.

i was very pleased with seeing that how people are on the blogs i love is how they are in real life. they are also just people, like you and me, who have real life stuff going on.

i totally expected john and sherry to have bodyguards and paparazzi. but seriously, clara was with them (and yes i got to scratch between burger's ears - i die) and she was running all over, playing with water dispensers and being a two year old. how on earth they keep up with her and run that blog/house/business is beyond me.

but remember when you read a blog you are only getting half the story - they are real people with real life stuff who have to do things like sleep, shower, go to the bathroom, and eat. it was mind boggling.

2. your blog name matters

haven 2012 q&a session

this is only a fraction of the people that were there - and i promise you i tried to meet every single one of them. here is an example:

me: hi! i'm skye from neathering our fest
sarah from thrify decor chick: hi skye - that name sounds familiar...
me: you probably know me as rindercella
sarah from TDC: oh! i've been to your blog!

let me say that again: not only has sarah BEEN to my blog (cue the eyes rolling in the back of my head and fainting) but she remembered it. because it has a memorable name. i truly believe that "neathering our fest" and "rindercella" were one of the better decisions i ever made.

3. business cards are important

business cards

thank you hubby for teaching me how to give out a business card and not feel like a smarmy car salesman. thank you haven conference for teaching me the importance of having a business card and having a top notch one at that.

put these on your to do list:
- get business cards
- make them fun, interesting, and able to stand out in a stack of them.

they are worth every single penny. #scoutshonor

4. layla and kevin are way more awesome in real life

layla

so. this is my new girlfriend for life. be jealous. i'm kind of jealous of myself. i could seriously not have been more giddy (like a 13-year old meeting justin beiber i tell you) about meeting her and getting to learn from her.

she is just amazing - and honestly the nicest person ever. and kevin? no words. they were so generous with their knowledge and funny! the photography course was definitely my favorite session. oh - and josh too. like i want to be his BFF and have coffee with him and talk about life. he is hilarious!

ps: layla and kevin write the lettered cottage. kevin and josh run shoot fly shoot. go follow all of them.

5. hospitality rules.

kelly

so what to do do when someone you have never actually met invites you to stay in their home for two nights and carpool together for a blogging conference? you say yes. immediately.

kelly from view along the way was an amazing hostess and good heavens her house is way more beautiful in person than in her pictures. (not that your pictures aren't amazing girl!) so a HUGE thanks to the VATW family for putting me up in a comfy bed with black out curtains to get what little sleep i got. ;)

PS - tell weston that pie sends a hug!!

i have SO much more to share about the conference but i want to let it all sink in first. were you there? did we meet? i'm really trying to remember everyone but it is almost impossible!! i have a huge stack of business cards to go through so i will hopefully be introducing you to some awesome new folks around here soon! :)

so - if you were there, i'm going to ask a question that kelly and i asked each other - what was the highlight of the conference for you?

June 25, 2012

defining success: aware

defining success and living our dreams

quick - tell me five things you are constantly aware of every day!

i'm breathing agan - yay! thank you Jesus!
exactly how much money is in our bank account/paypal
how much gas is in our car
how much i depend on my husband
is it saturday? no? yuck. ;)

now - tell me five things you should be aware of every day that would make you more successful?

what are my customers saying about my products?
how can i reach a new segment of market while staying within my product line?
how have i shared myself with my followers today?
how have i promoted my sponsors today?
have i looked around for new opportunities to take advantage of?

now. how are you going to implement these five NEW things you need to be aware of so that you are aware of TEN things??

my bet is that the first five things you can push aside and still be subconsciously of aware them. but those other things are going to have to be part of your active awareness. write them down and put them on your inspiration board or tape it to your computer.

what is one thing you need to be aware of to make yourself more successful?


June 23, 2012

the follower pyramid

one of the principles that rev. adam hamilton introduced to me in one of his sessions was the idea of a pyramid applied to any amount of people.

(did all that just sound like a bunch of garble? read the post on leadership first then come back! ;)

in the example he gave, he applied it to his congregation and called it the discipleship pyramid. basically his congregation (and most congregations in churches) fall into specific percentages based on their relationship with God:

the discipleship pyramid
(for clarification - i'm in that 30%)

he used this "model" to figure out his sermon series - what he would preach about and how he could interject things into a sermon that would reach out to the entire pyramid population. pretty cool huh?

i was all inspired by his talks and immediately starting applying this to my blog and business. today we will just talk blog though. i want to tackle the business side in another post.

the follower pyramid

take the number of followers you have (however you measure followers is okeydokey with me!) and apply it to this pyramid.

so - i have 196 GFC followers.

20 of them are engaged readers (read + comment every post)
40 of them are loyal readers (read + comment sometimes)
58 of them are occasional readers (read when they get a chance)
78 of them are fairweather fans (read when something's in it for them)

that seems about right, doesn't it? does it work out that way for you?

i don't really care where people fall in to be honest and maybe some people shift in and out of categories. i feel like for most blogs i fall in that "loyal readers" category. i read them religiously but i rarely comment. and i should change that.

but anyways - the point i'm making is that in a way, to become a successful blogger, you need to craft posts that reach each segment of the follower pyramid. i will probably never reach each and every follower with one post (if you know how though - please fill the rest of us in)!!

next go round i will share the way rev. hamilton crafts his sermons to do this. and then we can talk about how to apply that to our blogs. sounds like fun, right?

so how do you craft a blog post that can reach people in so many different places in their lives? that is my question to you - share with us how you write your posts. do you tell a story and then reveal the lesson? do you give out instructions or perhaps keep it light and funny? what part of you do you interject into your blog in order to reach all of your followers?

June 22, 2012

june sponsor showcase




i felt utterly successful when...
I got a business analytics internship for a Fortune 500 company in DC last summer!

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i felt utterly successful when...
I performed in our schools production of Jekyll and Hyde, usually school shows wouldn't be counted as super successful but ours got RAVE reviews, saying it seemed professional. After our final bow I can honestly say I felt amazing! My University Graduation will be the next moment!

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i felt utterly successful when...
I realized how happy and blessed I was in this life. I have a hard working husband, two beautiful children, a God that loves me, a house that we are making a home and a shop I love. To me - that is success.

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i felt utterly successful when...
I finally had that moment when I realized I needed to hire someone to help me out with the office side of the business-I was so busy working on orders that my back office was getting pretty messy :)

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i felt utterly successful on...
the day of my wedding! I knew with certainty that I had found my soulmate and that it would be forever. Still going strong after 25 years :-)

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i absolutely LOVED this post from kristin at tales from the nook about how women are portrayed on tv.

these mini patient stories from nicole at nicole marie had me cracking up. people ask some strange questions!

how adorable is this birthday party that mommy panda threw for her 2 year old? i think my invite might have got lost in the mail!

who needs a fancy camera?? here are five great tips on using your phone for your blog photography from cassie at the spontaneous designer.



sarah from fontenot four hosts an awesome thankful thursday link up on (yep - you guessed it) thursdays. what are you thankful for??

sinead from life as i know it has a really cool link up to share what you've been watching lately. yeah - i've still been rewatching bones. :)

shane at whispering sweet nothings has a really cool map on her blog where you can register your name and blog name and the city you're in! what a fun way to find bloggers in your area! (unfortunately, i seem to be the only blogger in louisiana. LAME)



drawstring studios

danielle at drawstring studio offers some awesome design help! i'm particularly in love with this room - the pink and gray has me swooning!!

fadeless memories

these acrylic cut-out pictures from fadeless memories are AMAZING. i have one sitting in my kitchen window (be on the lookout for a giveaway soon). these would make the coolest gifts!!

bagatelle designs

bagatelle designs has got the most fun jewelry! these earrings are so sparkly and great! seriously - they would really pop with a white summery dress wouldn't they?

spontaneous designer

cassie has been churning out some seriously awesome crocheted stuff lately. are you following her on instagram - see lots of her pretties on there! this clutch is adorable and i've never seen anything like it!



want to sponsor neathering our fest in july? check out my sponsor page for details! i'd love to have you!

June 21, 2012

defining success: joy

choose joy

i love to hear stories of people who have chosen joy! each morning we have a choice. we can face the day with joy or with bitterness.

how much more successful could you be if you faced each day choosing joy? wouldn't the sun shine just a little bit brighter? ;)

today i have danielle, my new friend from drawstring studios, to share with you the joy she find in her everyday life. danielle has a wonderful blog, two etsy shops (one for home decor and one full of fabulous fabrics) and i'm so pleased to have her with us today!!

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© Robyn Vining Photography

Success-what does it mean to me? JOY I know many of you have probably seen Lil Blue Boo's explanation of this philosophy but if not you can check it out here. Honestly it's taken me a long time to realize that I need to Choose Joy in my life.

There are always little things that make life crazy...kids that won't nap, laundry that won't fold itself, a customer that you can't satisfy....bills. But then one day I was thinking about "my life" ha ha sounds so serious. I realized that I am doing what I love and more often than not I am happy at the end of the day and choosing joy.

I'm not going to lie this didnt' happen over night and success doesn't work overnight, but with some hard work, some failures, some fine-tuning and finally a business model that fits me I feel that I have figured out my business...well for now!

For me a successful business and life isn't about who is making the most money, selling the most, or on the top-it's about being able to find Joy in your business and more importantly your life. I have two great kiddos and fantastic supportive husband and a quirky little house in a neighborhood that I love to walk around.

So go out there and find what being successful means to you and hold onto that!

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June 20, 2012

haven 2012

as you are reading this, i am cruising along interstate 20, careening through states like louisiana, mississippi, alabama and halfway across georgia, headed to HOTLANTA for the haven home bloggers conference.

and dude - i wouldn't get in my way!!!

i will be spending the weekend with kelly and maury, staying up late, carpooling into atlanta for sessions, getting all dressed up for cocktail parties, giggling over wine, and rubbing elbows with some pretty famous folks in my book.

and i could not be MORE excited about this.

so, while i'm gone, be sure to poke around. i have a sweet post saturday featuring a cool principle from rev. adam hamilton and friday i'm showing off my lovely sponsors! :)

see yall next week with tons of pictures! :)

June 19, 2012

whirlwind weekend recap

i don't typically do a weekend recap because we don't typically do much on the weekends but this summer has been stupid-busy, insanely eventful, and this weekend in particular can only be described as CRAY-CRAY.

it is kind of a long story so stick with me because there are some "really? that really happened" moments sprinkled in.

chris birthday montage

friday night we went to bossier city to our friend caroline's house. yall - caroline is the bomb. we looooove her and owe her like BIG HUGE PROPS for being our guardian angel this weekend. more on that in a bit.

we grilled out at caroline's and leisurely relaxed on her back porch around her pool. we made these amazing burgers, topped with cheese, avocado, onions, and her freshly made pico de gallo. some serious yum going on here. and the corn on the cob was so sweet and fresh. i mean this meal is currently at the top of my list for favorite meals ever.

oh - what is in those gifts you ask? a funny t-shirt, floormats for the truck, and what every methodist pastor needs, a bobblehead john wesley. all things my hubby loved.

we finished off the meal with yummy cookie cake. i didn't even take a picture of that either. oops. :}

boot shopping

i debated on whether or not to share this part of the story on my blog but we are all human, right? the next morning about 3:30 i had to use the restroom... so i go to the bathroom. and you know - do my business - and while i'm sitting there i got clammy, shaky, sweaty, and just nauseous. i start hacking and coughing trying to make myself throw up just so the horrible feeling will pass. a few minutes of this woke chris and he brought me a glass of water (sweet man that he is!) and while he is standing there in the bathroom with me, HE gets the same feeling! he had to drop to his knees because he was so shaky he couldn't stand.

so the short story is neither of us ever got sick but how bizarre is that? we racked our brains, trying to think of what we ate that no one else did (nobody else got sick) and even thought it might have been carbon monoxide poisoning. any idea what might have come over us??

so anywho - we both went back to sleep and got up around 8 feeling just as normal as ever! we hopped out of bed and got dressed and headed to breakfast at strawn's. seriously. #yum. then we headed to a couple of stores looking for caroline her first pair of boots. i have a slight love affair with boots and nearly got the chevron ones. but my heart belongs to ol' gringos. aren't those some gorgeous boots?

we left with caroline's new boots and headed for the panaderia and picked up some fresh flour tortillas, churros, and empanadas. i love panaderias! they make the best tortillas. so much better (and cheaper) than regular store bought ones!

and beagles. just because. ;)

crawfish

the last installment of this story is most eventful. we were ready to head back to west monroe and get ready for a crawfish boil for 40-ish people at the church. we had a guy who was getting the crawfish (live) for us but called us at one to tell us that "his guy" didn't get any on his run. so - we frantically call around in shreveport and find 120lbs of live crawfish. whew.

then we realize that we are in our two-door honda accord. not sure where we are going to stuff all these 120 pounds of live, treacherous crawfish. i mean it isn't like a can hold a bag of them in my lap. so caroline (this is where our guardian angel swoops in) in all her generosity and graciousness lets us use her suburban to get all these mudbugs back home. #awesome, she is.

so we run by caroline's to get all our things together and i realize my car is parked in the road and facing the wrong direction. so i grab my keys and go to turn it around so i don't get a parking ticket from neighborhood watch.

vroom vroom... sputter. vroooooooo-tttttthhhhppppp. click. click. and finally, nothing.

the car won't start. fantastic!

at this point we don't have time to worry with it and have to get back to west monroe with our live crawly friends. again, our guardian angel swoops in and carries us off and says she will have it towed to her shop and have it fixed for us.

{i mean really folks - she is SO MUCH TOO GOOD TO US it isn't even funny}

we drive carefully and abide by the laws speed to get back to west monroe in time to boil up our little crawlers and feed them to the youth from first umc Denton who have been on choir tour. as you can see, by the grace of God, we pulled it off!

crawfish

did you know that beagles loved crawfish? seriously - she wore herself out begging everyone for crawfish!

just to clarify something - i don't eat crawfish. #eew. but i love the community of a crawfish boil though!

so anyways, chris and i dropped into bed saturday and slept like rocks after our eventful day. sunday (father's day) we went to church and then headed where? BACK TO SHREVEPORT for dinner with our dad's. we also traded cars with caroline again and she let us bring her hubby's camaro home. that was quite a fun little ride! i have confirmed that my husband is never allowed to own his own sports car.

so the good news is my car is fixed (it just needed a new battery), caroline is like beyond thankable in my book (i have no words with how much gratitude i have for her today), and everyone enjoyed the entire weekend (birthday parties, crawfish boils, and father's day dinners oh my!)!

are you still here? ;) so - how was your weekend?

June 18, 2012

defining success: calculated

hi! is this your first time here? then you will want to catch up on this series:

defining our success and living our dreams

defining our success and living our dreams: intro

defining success: cheerful

defining success: unapologetic

defining success: happy

there is a ton of great information and lots of great comments - make sure to check them out too!

being a calculated type of person is something that i'm, well... NOT. in fact, anything that involves the root "calc" (calculator, calculated, calculus) sends me running for the hills. math is simply not my forte.

and when i think "calculated" in terms of success, i think of calculated risks. and that is something i have never learned how to do. ever.

i'd simply prefer to jump into things headfirst, not looking out for sharks in the water, deadly rocks glowing beneath the sleek surface, or that person with the life saver waiting to throw it in after me.

and if i wish to someday become that woman i visualize at the end of my journey then i'm going to have to learn how to put on a life jacket.

all of the women i consider successful and that i'd like to emulate take very calculated risks. they start new things with the understanding that they have put the time and effort behind it to make it successful.

oh to be that person! how do i do that? it drives me nuts to think that i would have to sit and wait for me to get all my imaginary ducks in a row before starting something! i want to DO it the moment it pops into my brain. i'm afraid that the time i spend researching what will need to go into my new venture (whatever it might be) is time wasted. time that i could be accomplishing something amazing! time that i could be DOING the next big thing and becoming successful at it!

however, the more i think about this the more i am realizing that some people probably just don't function this in this "play it safe" way. i don't function this way. or maybe i don't function within my own definition of calculated. so instead of learning to be entirely calculated, perhaps i shall teach myself how to walk the line a little bit.

wings

wow - that was refreshing! i think i learned a little more about myself than i was planning to there. i don't have to be a certain way just because i think it means it will make me successful! success has many paths - the one that gets me there is the right one for me. yeee!

so, are you a calculated risk taker or are you like me and prefer to dive in head first?

June 15, 2012

defining success: happy

i am loving this series so far! are you enjoying it too?

having somewhere to document this journey is definitely helpful in realizing my dreams but i forget to define my dreams sometimes.

my ultimate dream is to stay home in pajamas and have someone pay me to pin all the things. but that isn't very realistic. ;)

so a more realistic dream is for me to be self employed. part of my big problem is i have no idea what i want to do in that self employment but i'd like to get there one day. if it is painting signs and making note cards that gets me there then i am a-ok with that. but if it is something else that gets me there - that would be good too.

more than just being self employed, i'd love to volunteer a huge chunk of my time to youth ministries. i love young people and i truly believe that they need a little more direction in life. i'd love to be a successful woman role model for them and show them that hard work and defining your success can lead you to places you didn't know you could go.

those are my two big, defined dreams in life? what are yours?

part of defining these dreams has been to asses what makes me utterly happy. i'm excited to share the words of one of my best blog friends, cassie, on her happiness and her success story!

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Hey yall! I'm Cassie & I blog over at The Spontaneous Designer. An indie biz blog focusing on owning a handmade business and blogging! You will find tips, tricks and tutorials along with showing off shops I love. {Cough Skye's shop cough} ;)



Today I'm sharing what Success means to me. I love that success is different for every person. That we all have things that we define as success that others may not. Success for me is being Happy.

It's being happy with God - my relationship with him, my faith in him. It's being happy with my husband - who he is, our relationship, our love. It's being happy with my kids - who they are, how we raise them, how they see the world. It's being happy with my shop - the products I make and where my business is at. Success to me is truly being happy with this life I was given.

Success to me is also looking at my achievements in life and how far I have come. It's understanding that while I may want to do more. I have already done so much.

I married the only man I have ever loved. I have two sweet boys with him. We bought our first house. We are creating a life. I opened a shop that turned into something more than a hobby for me. I wrote a book and sent it to a publishing house. I'm writing two more books. I taught myself how to hand stamped jewelry. I taught myself how to sew. I have steadily blogged for over a year. I have dabbled in painting. I sang karaoke on Christmas. I have grown so much as a person. My faith has grown as well.

Success for me is being happy rolled in with understanding I have already done so much, gotten over so many fears, started living my dreams, raising a family and owning a handmade business.

What is your success?!

June 14, 2012

thoughts on leadership

last week i spent a majority of my week in shreveport, louisiana at the louisiana united methodist annual conference.

centenary college campus map

i realize that if you follow me on twitter + instagram, you already know this. ;)

this was my second year to participate as a delegate from my church. i went last year and was totally unprepared and uneducated for what i was really getting myself into. this year, however, i went knowing that i was speaking for my church (mcguire umc), my district (monroe), and in a large part, the youth in our conference. i asked in several places for prayers over the conference, as we were making huge budget cuts that would largely affect the youth ministry budgets.

the floor during opening worship at annual conference

it was tense to say the least. but i won't get into the nuts and bolts of what happened because, truth? you'd probably fall asleep. and i wouldn't really blame you much for it. let's just say it isn't all excitement and party balloons, okay? ;)

the best part of the conference this year (because i have so many years of experience to compare it to) was definitely the guest speaker they brought in.

rev. adam hamilton

rev. adam hamilton is the founding pastor of church of the resurrection in leawood, kansas - the largest united methodist congregation in the united states (and possibly the world?) he was given the appointment in leawood and asked to start a church there, and has since grown it to over 18,000 members (i know - my jaw is hanging open too!) and has used his ministry there to reach thousands of people who, without COR, might have never even heard of Jesus. pretty phenomenal in my book.

speaking of books, rev. hamilton has also authored many books, the most popular of which is probably leading beyond the walls. this book is on my to read list.

notes on leadership

as i sat there, taking pages and pages and pages of notes, it occurred to me that i could definitely apply some of his principles, in their most basic form, to my blog and business. and i started having ideas.

dude - sometimes ideas can be downright scary.

and, like rev. hamilton who freely shares his information, i want to share all the good stuff floating in my head with you! i can't fit it all into one post but i will start by sharing a couple of ideas that i came away with that stuck in my head.

leaders dream and dont give up

it is a simple, bold, and incredibly true statement.

think of someone you consider a leader. i bet you could apply this statement to them, right?

what is something you have given up on? are you ready to attack it again - with a new fervor? i am. :)

a blessing and benediction over the pastor

the other thing i came away with is the marked lack of representation in upper level ministry for the ages of 13-40. it was a rare occurrence to see anyone less than fifty assigned to a conference board or committee. it shocked and saddened me. and lit a little bit of a fire under my butt also!

people my age and the generation behind us (yes, those somewhat irritating and irresponsible teenagers that make me roll my eyes on a regular basis...) are the future of any life of any church. it is so important they are represented and they are involved in the ministry of the church.

ordination service

you and i, yes, just about everyone reading this blog, are responsible for the future life of our church. if we want the world to improve and the church to play a larger role in it (and man does it ever need to) then you and i have to stand up and take care of business.

so this is more one of those half-time, bring the pain, get your act together speeches to me, not necessarily to any of you. but it is true - if we want the world to be a better place to live then you and i need to do something about it.

i can't wait to share some of the leadership ideas that rev. hamilton shared. make sure you don't miss a post by subscribing via rss feed or liking my facebook page to keep up with the posts! ;)

pictures:
~centenary college campus map
~opening worship at conference
~rev. adam hamilton in a small group meeting with young clergy
~a small portion of my notes
~doodling and dreaming
~a blessing over our current bishop before his retirement
~the bishop giving his last ordination sermon

June 13, 2012

defining success: unapologetic

i was a little scared to put this one out here because it is going to sound like i just don't care. but that isn't the case. so i thought i would get it out in the open early on and then i can't take it back, right?

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the successful version of myself is unapologetic. she does not feel bad for choices she makes and she does not make decision to please anyone but herself. that walks a very fine line of not caring enough and caring too much. it is a tight rope to walk but the successful me is confident she made the right decision and knows she will not have to apologize for it.

let me give you an example.

last weekend i had mountains and hours of work to do on saturday. june has been an incredibly busy month so far (and yes - i know it is only the 13th...) and i haven't had much free time to do work for the shop. my free time is the only time i have to dedicate to thumbprint designs because i work full time. i do get a lot of blogging done during the day but i try not to work on shop stuff because it seems a little unprofessional.

and i don't want to do anything i need to apologize for, right?

so anyways - i had settled in front of my computer, geared up for a long day of fixing margins, designing subway art and note cards, and printing/packaging products. i had my coffee, my comfy seat and my music all geared up.

and then my neighbors popped over and invited chris and i out on the boat for the day.

decision time. do work or do play? which would i be more sorry i missed out on?

so this happened.

ouachita river

ouachita river

ouachita river

ouachita river

and i'm not sorry. there was a lot of work i could have got done, yes, but i'm not sorry i didn't. does that mean that this week i will be putting rubber to the roads to catch up? yep. but i wouldn't trade a day with my nose to the grindstone for a day on the river for anything. and i'm not sorry about it.

what have you apologized for lately? what have you done that you aren't sorry for? tell us about it!

June 12, 2012

defining success: cheerful

does my work make me smile? does is leave that sense of buoyancy in my chest that makes me bubble along and grin from ear to ear just because i love it?

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being cheerful with my life is something i have rarely experienced. this is mostly my fault. i am always looking ahead for what else i could be doing instead of seeing what is right in front of me. i am constantly thinking "man i would be SO much happier doing..." when i could be perfectly happy with where i presently stand if i could just appreciate my moment in life now.

how easy is it to focus on all the negative that surrounds us? for me it is toooo easy. way to easy. i'd much rather look at all the crappy parts of my life and complain about it because sometimes it just gives me something to talk about. do you every feel this way? thank goodness for #shereadstruth and all the women involved to help me get the negative + toxic out of my life.

how do we be cheerful in our life and in our journey to personal success?

the answer is easy: remember that part in peter pan when they are learning how to fly? all it takes is faith and trust... and a little bit of pixie dust! oh - and don't forget that happy memory - so essential in learning how to fly.

{why yes - i did just make a disney movie reference!}

every day, focus on one thing that makes you fizzy, bubbly, bouyant with happiness. is it morning time spent in His word? is it the five minutes you take for yourself right before bed to put on yummy smelling lotion? is it throwing the ball for your pup in the yard or snuggling with your babies first thing in the morning?

for a few minutes each day, focus on that moment and feel yourself inflate with happiness, like your tummy is full of champagne. let yourself elevate a few feet off the ground and float around in this happiness! remember this moment when you have a backslide moment - an unhappy customer, a mean comment, or a moment of complete un-inspiration.

remember that you alone own that balloon in your chest that fills up when you are truly cheerful! you alone define your journey to success and only you can allow that balloon to be popped. guard that cheerful moment! make it a landmark along your path and remember it often.

tell us - what is your cheerful moment? or if you don't want to share it, what about a time that your cheerful moment has pulled you out of a slump?

June 11, 2012

defining success & living our dreams
a new series at neathering our fest

i got to thinking a couple of weeks ago of how easy it is to hold yourself accountable to other peoples' dreams and standards. just because one person does things one way and finds success doing it so doesn't mean that we should copy their style and define our success by their words.

i started picturing me as a successful woman. what words would i use to describe myself if i was at that ultimate peak of success in my life? and who is there to say that i haven't already reached that landmark? i jotted down a few words on a post it note and stuck it in my journal. then i reached out to you guys on instagram and asked what words described success to you.

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i loved the responses i got and it really got my wheels turning... some of us (oh yes - me in particular friends) are so focused on getting to that plateau of success that we miss out on the journey that got us there. we bypass the lessons we learned just to get to that ultimate destination of shining rock star-ness. we forget who we were when we started, what we became along the way, and only focus on who we want to be!

that is where the guts of this series stirred from. it started as a few posts defining the words that mean success to me and has slowly formed into a reflection on our journey and a formation of the woman who stands at the end. we have to know who she is so we recognize when we meet up with her, do we not? otherwise we might speed right by her and miss out on the most successful periods of our lives.

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join us this month as we go back on our journeys and put up markers for little landmarks along the way. as we define what success means to us personally and professionally - judged against our own standards and not hers or hers. as we create in our mind the woman who stands at the end of our journey, beckoning us into a sun-filled land of happiness. i believe it exists and i believe that i can get there.

do you?